21 Ways to Love Her the Right Way

Men, it’s easier to bed a woman or stimulate your sex life with your wife or girlfriend with the right attitude – and by setting the right mood.

May we give you some advice? How about 21 ways to love her the right way!

1. Spend a lot of time warming up your lady to give her the best orgasm she has ever had! Kiss the back of her neck, her hairline, her ears. Kiss her eyes, her throat, her lips. Spend several minutes just kissing each other. Vary the kisses –light ones, then deep, passionate ones. Run your tongue over her lips and teeth, suck her lower lip. Then move down to her breasts, kissing, suck­ing, nibbling, caressing them. Roll one nipple in your fingers and flick the other with your tongue, sucking it, then flicking it. Spend several minutes here. Then, move down her body to her stomach, kissing, touching, caressing. Then, move to her inner thighs.

2. Your lady wants to play today, so take her to the best playground, an amusement park! Ride the roller coaster and tilt-a-whirl. Chase each other in bumper cars and view the playground from the top of the Ferris wheel. Buy her cotton candy and popcorn and win a teddy bear for her at one of the booths. You’re teenagers again, holding hands and stealing kisses! Walk with your lady on a moonlight night. The beach is the best, with waves crashing on the sand, but walking along a lake or in the park will do nicely. Hold hands and talk about the future. Kiss her gently and tell her how beautiful she looks in the moonlight. This is a time for tenderness and gentle touches. When you get home, make gentle, sweet love with her.

3. Your lady needs a little romance, so give it to her with a touch of class. If possible, take her to a restaurant with strolling violinists and arrange for them to play “your” song at your table. If violinists aren’t available, try a restaurant with a band or a pianist and arrange for them to play your fa­vorite tunes. Dance with her and tell her how much you love her. Continue the romantic mood of the evening when you get home with slow, sweet lovemaking.

4. Run your tongue close to her pussy, but avoid touching it directly for several minutes. Raise her bottom and run your tongue over her buttocks, along her crack. Go back to her inner thighs and slowly approach her pussy. When she is moaning with desire, massage her labia with your fingers gently. Now spread the labia to expose her clit. Flick it with your tongue the way she likes best. When she comes, which should be quickly and intensely after this kind of foreplay, let her rest for several moments while you caress and kiss her inner thighs. Then proceed to your own pleasure.

5. Buy a Lone Ranger mask from a costume shop and dress up like a cowboy. Then seduce your lady while she is reading or watching TV. Whatever you do, don’t take off your mask. Ask your lady to take a warm bath and wait for you on the sofa. Have a drink ready for her when she emerges from her bath. Tell her to lie quietly and fantasize while you prepare a wonderful dinner just for the two of you.

6. After a few minutes, go to her and blindfold her. Lift her knees to her head so that her pussy is ac­cessible. Ask her to hold her legs in this position. Now, take a large vibrator or dildo with ridges. Insert it slowly in her pussy. Then, slowly, remove it to its tip and be­gin thrusting it gently while your own cock lies against her thighs. Tell her to fantasize about two men making love to her. Continue to stroke her with the vibe, timing your strokes with her mounting passion. If you don’t have a vibe in the house, improvise with whatever is suitable.

7. When you are making love with your lady, let her smell — then taste — her own love juices. When she is really hot, dip your finger in her pussy, then lift it to her nose while you are kissing her. Between kisses, lick your finger, then put your finger into her mouth slowly. Repeat this several times, then enter her for a roaring climax.

8. Spread large towels on your bed. Take a bottle of body oil and lavish oil over your lady’s body till it glistens. Don’t miss an inch as you move your slippery hands over her body, front and back. Then lie on top of her and move your body across her glistening skin. By the time you finish, you’ll both be covered with love oil.

9. If you’re not the jealous type, hire a male strip­per to dance for your lady in private (with you there, of course!). Plan a dinner at home and arrange for the dancer to act as the waiter for dinner. Ask him to dress in a tuxedo and strip and dance to provocative music at the end of dinner. Photograph or video­tape the event for future enjoyment. How far he strips and how long he stays is up to you.

10. Your lady is tired tonight. Express your love by holding — just holding — her in your arms as you both drift off to sleep. When morning comes, wake her with light kisses and early morning cuddling. Kiss her face, neck, and breasts. Make your way slowly down her body and bring her to full awakening with cunnilingus. Take nothing for yourself, even if she of­fers to reciprocate. This is a gift to her. While she is lying in the afterglow of your love, serve her favorite morning beverage in bed.

11. While your lady’s away, fill her bedroom with flowers. If you can afford it, order several dozen bouquets from a florist, or buy the flow­ers and arrange the vases yourself. When she comes home, be in the bedroom, lying naked on the bed with a rose in your teeth. She’ll take it from there.

12. Arrange for a hot air balloon ride with your lady (Hot air balloons may be rented in most major cities for 100 dollars or less for an hour’s ride). Pack a picnic of finger foods and wine or champagne. Feed each other as you soar above the countryside. Kiss and touch to your heart’s content, but save the grand finale until you land. Too much motion might upset the balloon basket . . . not to mention the balloon pilot!

13. Romance is the spice of life. Choose this inter­lude when giving your lady a special present, such as diamond jewelry. Arrange a candlelit dinner at home or a very intimate restaurant. Pres­ent her with a box of chocolate truffles in which you’ve placed the jewelry in lieu of one of the chocolates. Watch her joy when she opens the box.

14. Take your lady dancin’ tonight . . . at home. Put some slow, sexy dance music on the stereo, and ask her to dance with you. As you dance, kiss and touch her. Let her feel your growing desire. Slowly strip off her clothes, piece by piece, and let her do the same to you. Continue dancing in the nude. When you’re ready, enter her and continue dancing. Pick her up and let her wrap both legs around your back, or bend her over and enter her from behind, matching your movements to the music.

15. Treat your lady to a foot massage when she is especially tired and tense. Prepare her favorite drink and tell her to remove her shoes and relax. Pre­pare a large basin of hot water. Add fragrant bath salts and place her feet in the basin to soak for a few minutes. Get a towel, floor pillow, bar of soap, and body lotion. Seat yourself on the floor pillow at her feet, and wash each foot slowly, lovingly, massaging it gently. Dry her feet and put the basin of water aside. Now, take one of her feet in your lap and rub the lotion into it. Massage the instep and sole of the foot deeply. Take her ankle in both your hands and massage it in small, circular mo­tions. Attend to each toe individually. Kiss each foot as you finish and/or suck her toes! Repeat this procedure with the other foot. When you have finished, let your lady take the lead. She may be relaxed enough to fall asleep–or aroused enough to take on a different kind of interlude.

16. The next time you make love to your lady, spend some time on her inner thighs… you can tease her to great heights this way. Kiss, lick, and nibble each of her inner thighs, approaching but not touching her pubic area. Move in closer, kissing and tonguing the entire area, yet still avoiding her vagina and clitoris. Caress her inner thighs lightly. Intersperse the kissing and tonguing with gentle bites. Finally, turn your full attention to the center of her sex and bring her to a climax. Watch our pussy-licking videos for more tips!

17. Brushing your lady’s hair can be a sensuous ex­perience for both of you. Have her sit comfort­ably at your feet, her back to you. Start by massaging her scalp with your fingertips. Then, brush her hair with 100 slow, gentle strokes. When you have finished, mas­sage her temples with a firm circular motion, then move around her hairline to the base of her shoulders to give her a firm massage. Kiss the back of her neck at her hairline. Let your kisses and her responses guide you through the rest of this interlude.

18. Invite your lady to meet you at your office one night when you work late. When she ar­rives, lock the door if you have a private office; if not, make sure everyone, including the cleaning people, are gone. (The later the hour, the better for this interlude!) Greet your lady with a long, deep kiss to set the mood, then expand your kisses to her neck, ears, and hair. Un­button her blouse and bra. Ignore her protests. Kiss her breasts and nipples until she is fully aroused. (Stay as fully clothed as possible; you may have to recover quickly!) Bend her over the desk so that her el­bows are resting on the desktop. Kneel behind her, lift her skirt, and ease her panties to her ankles. Touch her with your tongue and fingers until she is ready for you. Then unzip your pants and enter her from behind. The danger of discovery only increases the thrill.

19. She may not be interested in active sex tonight, but watching is another matter. Ask her to un­dress and wait for you in bed. Then, undress and sit in a chair near the bed or on the corner. Arouse yourself by fantasizing or looking at erotic photos. Pre­tend you are alone as you stroke yourself to a climax.

20. Give your lady a new sensation. When you’re ready for intercourse, grasp her ankles in each hand and raise her knees as close to her head as they can comfortably go. Take her in this position.

21. Although she seems hardly interested, your lady really wants to be seduced — to be kissed, teased, aroused, and finally, taken. Start your seduction with music. Put something sexy on the stereo, maybe some blues or jazz. Then begin to touch her hair, ears, neck, shoulders, wherever she happens to be, whatever she happens to be doing. If she doesn’t respond at first, make your actions speak a little louder. Kiss her nipples through her shirt, or lift or unbutton it to kiss them directly. Run your hand up her leg to her panties, and run your fingertip just inside the panty leg. By now, you should have her complete attention. Carry on!

Make yourself better at romancing your woman. She’ll give you more pussy!