Is she cheating on you? Take our quiz!

Have you ever cheated on your partner? We hope not. But if you have, we’d like to believe you’ve learned from that experience. Cheating on your other half is the ultimate betrayal. The last straw. The line in the sand for many.

However, what do you do if you think your mate is cheating on you? WHOA! It brings the perspective into a completely different light. Generally, a very sad, dark, disheartening light. It doesn’t change your feeling, whether you’ve cheated in the past or not. It also doesn’t mean the experiences have to be with the same partner. You may have cheated in the past and have been unconditionally loyal to your current lover!

Take our quiz now and let’s figure out if she’s the love of your life or if she’s playing you for a fool!

Question 1: Does she avoid you in public places like school or work?

Answers:

1. (Y) We make eye contact but then she turns her head and carries on with her business never really acknowledging me.

2. (M) Maybe. She waves & says hi, but doesn’t rush to give me a hug.

3. (N) No, she doesn’t seem to avoid me. She loves on me for all to see.

Question 2: Do you think you’re being cheated on?

Answers:

1. (Y) Yea, she’s too distant.

2. (M) She might be, but I’m not sure.

3. (N) Probably not, I’m only doing this because I’m bored.

Question 3: When you’re in a group setting, do you notice her leave with her whereabouts being unknown?

Answers:

1. (Y) I have seen her slip out of the group – no idea what she’s doing.

2. (M) Well, she’s in the group. I haven’t really measured her every move.

3. (N) Nah, she always stays in the group. She’s a bit quiet but I wouldn’t expect her to stray.

Question 4: On social media, e-mails, or group texts… you notice:

Answers:

1. (Y) She’s only online when a certain guy is online too.

2. (M) She doesn’t post about y’all often but that’s because she likes to keep her personal relationships private. She offers you her phone so you can look through her texts and messages but you don’t want to be the “crazy” boyfriend who does that.

3. (N) She’s super affectionate. You regularly see these cute “Look at my man!” posts from her.

Question 5: When you find her after a group outing, and ask her where she went, she says:

Answers:

1. (Y) “Yea, sorry, I had to return a library book and I got lost on the way.”

2. (M) “Oh, I was here, I just stepped away because my girlfriend was upset about something (as she looks around for said friend).”

3. (N) “I’ve been here the whole time. You seriously didn’t even notice me?!”

Question 6: Does she seem more affectionate on rare occasions when you’re alone together?

Answers:

1. (Y) She’s not interested in being intimate and would rather spend time on her phone.

2. (M) We don’t have much time alone. We spend a lot of time with mutual friends and it’s very lax.

3. (N) She wants to cuddle and she gets wild in bed. She definitely likes the sex!

Question 7: Is she eager to hang out with you when you’re hanging with your best guy friend?

Answers:

1. (Y) She’s all over me when he’s around. She’s not nearly as horny when it’s just her and I.

2. (M) She does her own thing, with or without me. I don’t think she cares.

3. (N) She loves our one-on-one time. But she also likes the solo time we have with our own friends.

Question 8: Have you caught her in a lie?

Answers:

1. (Y) Yes and I don’t trust her much anymore.

2. (M) Well yea, but what does that mean? Doesn’t everyone line here and there. And her pussy is like kryptonite, how am I supposed to differentiate?!

3. (N) No, she communicates A LOT. I hear about the lunch she had with her mom. It’s TOO much at times.

Question 9: When you confront her on a lie:

Answers:

1. (Y) She stared at me like I asked an Einstein-level math equation.

2. (M) She seems confident and says she’s not lying. Tells you to call her friends for verification. But who’s to say those girls aren’t in no the scheme.

3. (N) I’ve never had to confront her. She’s too honest to lie successfully. Even when I’ve questioned something, she comes with receipts and proof so I shut up and apologize.

Question 10: Has she purchased a new wardrobe recently?

Answers:

1. (Y) She’s put more effort into looking delicious every day. An outfit that shows off her curves with hair and make-up being on-point. She just started getting her eyebrows done too… who knew that was a thing?! She’s out here impressing!!

2. (M) Don’t females buy and change outfits often? I thought this was normal.

3. (N) She dresses to look cute but also be comfortable, nothing new or sexy. She feels confident in what she wears and she knows I’m looking at her fine ass in a skin-tight summer dress.

Question 11: When you suspect her cheating with a certain fella, and he ISN’T around:

Answers:

1. (Y) She disappears without an explanation once she re-appears.

2. (M) She’s on her phone A LOT. Probably texting him. If she wants to be with him, she’ll just leave me and go to him…. Right!?

3. (N) I didn’t look into it. He can come around…but she’ll curb him and come to me … so (shrugs shoulder)?

Question 12: When you ask if she’s seeing someone else:

Answers:

1. (Y) She says no, adamantly! Then she gets pissed off that you even question her.

2. (M) She tells you she only has eyes for you, that you’re crazy, and says “Why would you ask me that, I love you!”

3. (N) You don’t ask. You’re confident in your relationship and your doubt she has the time for another dude.

Question 13: Have you always been suspicious of your partner?

Answers:

1. (Y) Yea, I can’t help but be paranoid. She’s hot and very aloof with her doings.

2. (M) I hate to think it, but it’s very possible.

3. (N) Not really, she’s dedicated to our relationship.

Question 14: Has your girl been hanging out with another guy as “friends”?

Answers:

1. (Y) Well yea, but they’re study buddies.

2. (M) Not that I know of…

3. (N) Never, she wouldn’t do that without talking to me first.

Question 15: Is she working out more?

Answers:

1. (Y) She’s amped up her health routine. She’s definitely trying to impress other men.

2. (M) She wanted to look her best but I’m not sure why. She’ll do an hour a day in the gym and then divulge in tacos and margaritas. I don’t understand what her goals are?!

3. (N) I don’t think it’s any more than normal. She keeps herself fit and healthy but that’s what makes her feel best.

Question 16: Have your other friends noticed things are “weird” in your relationship?

Answers:

1. (Y) Yes because they give me funny looks and I can hear them joking about my relationship.

2. (M) They’ve come to me questioning my girl but I don’t always entertain the conversation.

3. (N) If they have noticed, they haven’t brought it to me.

Question 17: Has anyone seen your girl out with another guy?

Answers:

1. (Y) Yes, they approached her and she denied being anything more than friends with the guy.

2. (M) If they did, they didn’t tell me about it.

3. (N) She’s been spotted out but always with her friends at a bar or restaurant.

Question 18: Does she makes excuses NOT to see you?

Answers:

1. (Y) All the time. She’s eternally “too busy”.

2. (M) Sometimes but she’s in school full-time and working part-time so, I give her a pass.

3. (N) Never. She’s almost always available. Even when she is busy, she’ll adjust her schedule to make time for me.

Question 19: What does your gut/instinct tell you?

Answers:

1. (Y) “She’s cheating on you. Open your eyes, confront her and talk it out.”

2. (M) “It’s unlikely, you’re just being paranoid.”

3. (N) “She wouldn’t cheat on you!”

Question 20: Does she shower as soon as she gets home?

Answers:

1. (Y) She beelines for the shower, which, by the way, is 5000 degrees hot. It’s like “hi” and “bye” in the same sentence. Lord knows what she’s cleaning off in there.

2. (M) Well, she just got home from work. Why wouldn’t she take a shower & freshen up? I’d rather her be fresh & clean before I go down on her.

3. (N) She showers every night but it’s not her immediate goal. She’ll come home, toss off her heels, make a cocktail and chill with me while I play video games.

Question 21: Are you having less sex?

Answers:

1. (Y) She doesn’t seem as interested as she used to be.

2. (M) Ugh, I don’t know. I wanna fuck daily, but she’s down for 69 and nothing more.

3. (N) We fuck like rabbits. My cock is hard and ready for her, nightly!

Question 22: Is money missing from your joint account?

Answers:

1. (Y) Yes, but I can’t get a straight answer. She talks in circles about paying bills, saving for a boob job, and investing her extra paycheck.

2. (M) I have no idea. That’s her department. She wanted to control the finances so I let her, as long as I don’t get any later notices.

3. (N) No way! She’s always talking about our account balances, what bills are due, and how much money we have left after savings is set aside.

Question 23: Does she screen calls when you’re around?

Answers:

1. (Y) She does. But she always says the calls are spam. I saw one come in as contact “Britney’s Cousin” and she swears I’m wrong. I assume she’s hiding that conversation.

2. (M) Her phone will buzz; she’ll look at it, and then generally put her phone face down as if she doesn’t care.

3. (N) Never. If she wants to answer or respond to anyone, she will. Even when I’m trying to seduce her.

Question 24: Does she ALWAYS tell you when she’s hanging out with another guy?

Answers:

1. (Y) She’s very elusive. She does what she wants and expects me to trust her. She’ll answer my call but won’t say specifically who she’s with or what they’re doing.

2. (M) She doesn’t blatantly lie but she is a bit vague. She’ll say “I’m hanging with friends”, but doesn’t tell me that “friend” is the dude that’s been eyeing her for months.

3. (N) No but we’ve established a level of trust and I know most of her guy friends so, I’m OK.

Question 25: Are you casually dating, in a committed relationship, or married?

Answers:

1. (Y) I’m skeptical. Seems my wife is cheating regularly and I’m the idiot who doesn’t see it or want to address it.

2. (M) My fiancée is loving & attentive but I think she might have said yes to the ring, not realizing the marriage that follows.

3. (N) My girlfriend is obsessed with me and I absolutely adore her. She gives the best head and I think she knows she’s working towards an engagement.

Answers:

Mostly 1’s – Bro, you really need to consider all the facts here. She’s too suspect. Listen to your instincts! If it walks like a duck and talks like a duck… it’s not a horse. Do you really want to be in a relationship where you have to question any loyalty?

Mostly 2’s – Well, there are definitely some red flags. But, she also seems to really like you. We suggest proceeding with caution. Talk to her about your concerns, she may have a wandering eye, but vulnerability from a man is very sexy. She’ll likely toss those other candidates for a strong man who can also talk about his feelings.

Mostly 3’s – You’re being paranoid. If you’ve been cheated on in the past, you’re instinctively always on alert. But just because you’ve been cheated on once, doesn’t mean you’ll be cheated on in every relationship. Give her the benefit of the doubt.  She’s with you because she wants to be with you, enjoy her!

There you have it. We hope our cheating partner quiz has helped you get some answers. Remember that cheaters are going to cheat, it’s what they do. You can either accept it for what it is or don’t, and move on. There’s plenty more hot, loyal and loving fish in the sea!