It’s no secret that men put in a lot of work when pursuing a babe they’re interested in, especially if the goal is to get in her panties. After surveying 1,000 women, we’ve recapped 10 reasons why she won’t hook up with you.
Most guys realize that the first time you hook-up is more significant than the second, third, and even the fiftieth time. It represents sexual conquest, like a breakthrough of the female accepting you as her sex partner.
Even in these so-called “sexually-liberating times”, how far a chick will go is determined by how a guy behaves.
The women we surveyed did not shy away from honesty. When it came to asking why they gave up the cookie, we had a bunch of these responses:
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“I was lonely, so why not?”
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“He was hot and I was curious how good he’d be in bed.”
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“He said he loved me.”
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“He/I got drunk and I didn’t care what happened.”
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“He chased me for a long time and I finally gave into his advances.”
These ladies went into greater detail on why they say “NO” too. One group confirmed that “It’s what a guy says while he’s trying to coax me out of my clothes and, into bed, that makes the difference. There are certain subjects and clichés that put him right behind the 8-ball.” In other words, many brothers tend to talk themselves out of what otherwise could be a wild night of sexual fulfillment for both.
Here are 10 major topics of conversation mistakenly used by guys on the prowl. They may be fascinating to males, but to females, they are about as sexually stimulating as cold water at the North Pole:
1] Other babes you’ve banged.
No girl wants to feel she’s joining a harem when she’s considering giving up her sex. Smart chicks will reason that the guy who boasts about his other flings, is building himself up on an ego trip. She also suspects that if she spreads her legs for him, she will be on his bragging list. No chick wants her name thrown about as an easy lay.
2] How much money you have.
Unless you’re out with a pro or a money-hungry slut, a girl doesn’t like to hear a guy boast about how much he’s got on a first date. She’ll feel like he’s trying to buy a piece of her. The biggest complaints were “I don’t want to feel like I’m just a well-paid prostitute” and “I don’t want to go out with any guy who thinks his money will get me to fuck him.”
3] Coercion and booze.
In the average girl’s mind, these are associated with unpleasant situations. On the first date, a sexy, interested babe will likely stare at you in disgust if you try to force her to drink too much — or if you drink too much. She’ll figure it won’t be long before she has a drinking problem: you. To ladies, this type of guy looks like he has no control opposed to the tough-guy image he may think he is projecting.
4] How good you are in the sack.
Nothing will put a girl in a deep freeze as fast as hearing you brag about your sexual prowess. Inexperienced girls will be scared off because they’re afraid they’ll look ridiculous trying to match the performance of a lust-crazed dude. No woman wants to look like a sexual failure. For experience gals, she’s likely to reject your advances simply because she knows from experience that a guy who is good at sex doesn’t need to brag about it. It’s better to surprise a female partner rather than disappoint her.
5] Talk about motels.
You’d be surprised how many chicks have turned down guys who mentioned a motel on their first date. Girls hate the thought of being pushovers. They want to be wooed because they feel more secure that way. And if she happens to have had some experience of these “hot-sheet” sites for a quick fuck, she might not want them again.
6] Suggest that guys be brass and blunt.
Whether the girl you’re talking to is a “classy lady” or not doesn’t matter. She likes to think she is and that she’s treated in such way. In layman’s terms, don’t be disrespectful. Be polite, concerned, and considerate. Good manners and polite restraint give a good impression. Whether true or not, it’s her impression of you that encourages her to enjoy your company and ultimately gets you into her pants. If she didn’t think of you as a possible sex partner, she wouldn’t be out with you in the first place. Remember, consideration, and good manners don’t mean you have to bow and scrape or put on such a stiff formality that you become repulsive. Be courteous…. it WILL pay off.
7] Don’t downgrade yourself.
Tell her the best about yourself without boasting. If you don’t believe in yourself, neither will she. Assume success as a matter of course, but don’t labor the point. Be confident in yourself and your successes in life. You’d be surprised how often you bat a thousand with this one!
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