


It’s 2023, and anal sex is still taboo. Why? Many women (and some men) are completely turned off by the thought of anal sex. Some people think it’s gross, uncomfortable, and dirty. If you believe that, read our 20 tips for successful anal sex and maybe reconsider. On the other hand, there’s a whole sector of people who love it! Some may think anal sex is doggy style in the ass, but there are many ways to make love to the butt. Give it the attention it needs, and you’ll be heavily rewarded! Here are a few ways to get in that booty:
DOGGY STYLE
Doggy style is the most common position for anal sex. It tends to be the most accessible to her backdoor but also allows her to relax and have some control over your entrance and rhythms. It can be done standing or kneeling behind her.

WOMAN ON HER BACK
Like missionary, this position lets the man take control while the woman benefits from his thrusts. We don’t recommend this for beginners, but it is more enjoyable for seasoned butt-sex lovers. He can spread her lips or play with her clit for added pleasure.

SPOONING
Side-by-side spooning is typical for snuggling but works well for butt sex too. Being able to lay next to your partner provides comfort for both people. It’s intimate and allows for a more relaxing experience. You can literally slide right into her, and by holding her close, you can control the tension and bury yourself in her tight hole.

ANAL SEX TOYS
Sex toys are an excellent way for newbies or interested parties to dabble in booty sex. Introducing anal toys can be fun; you can go at your own pace without committing to his girth. There are so many toys for anal sex too; anal beads in varying sizes, butt plugs from small to large, and even training kits to work your way from beginner to pro.

DOUBLE PENETRATION
DP is definitely for seasoned gals only. For women who like anal AND vaginal sex – this is the best of both worlds. Taking a cock in each of her hot holes brings a level of ecstasy that can’t easily be described. You can share her with another guy, or use a toy for her other hole. Either of you can control the toy, giving you both the double penetration sensation!

COWGIRL
A classic position where she is on top and faces you. This gives her control of how sex will go, whether slow and sensual or fast and vigorous. Some men get super turned on by letting her ride your cock as she pleases. Generally, a win-win!

REVERSE COWGIRL
Similar to cowgirl, but with her facing away from you. She still gets to be in control, but it feels different with her facing away. It’s a different but quite pleasurable sensation for your man-meat. A simple about-face gives her a different feeling too!

Aside from all the anal sex positions, there’s more anal fun to be had!
EATING HER ASS
This is another great introduction to butt sex. While you’re eating her pussy, drag your tongue down to her sphincter and give it a few licks. The tease will make her go wild!

GAPPING
What is gaping, you ask? Gaping is typically the woman bent over in a doggy-style position, spreading her ass-checks after penetration by dick or toys. Either of you can spread her cheeks. Doing that creates a gap, or hole, in her anus that allows you to see further into her anal cavity. Some think gaping is just for pornstars. That is not true. If you’re into anal sex and do it often, don’t be afraid to ask her to try it. It’s a bit of a turn-on to visually see how much of you she can take in her hole.

FINGERING HER ASS
Fingering her ass might be too much for a newbie. Still, once you start exploring, it’s another excellent source to give her extra pleasure. Eat her pussy and massage her butt hole. Then, slowly insert a finger – it’s double the pleasure for her. Maybe you’re fucking her doggy style; you can do the same thing. Circle her hole, use some lube, and slowly add a finger inserting it in and out in sync with your thrusts into her pussy! You might get her to orgasm multiple times.

Question of the Month for our Readers:
Have you had anal sex? If so, how did it go? Did you like it, did she like it, was it a one-time experiment or do you do it often?
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