A Woman’s Guide To Analizing A Man

Ladies, let’s face it, sex with men can be really trying. Makes me wonder why we’re not all lesbi­ans. Nonetheless, I’m going to tackle a tough issue for both men and women: Analingus. Defined as oral stimulation of the anus, but there are many euphemisms for it. Like pornography, most people are either for it or against it. We won’t stop at mere anal­ingus, but we’ll discuss frankly about insertions into that space, too. The subject may be slightly taboo to some, but a woman’s guide to analizing a man will be quite helpful for some!

Okay, let’s get into it (no pun in­tended). Rimming your man: If your man really likes having his perineum (the space between a man’s anus and scrotum) massaged or caressed or rubbed during oral sex or intercourse, then he may very well like having oral attentions there, too. But men may have al­though time of asking for it though, so it may be up to you to take the first step. If you want to suggest trying it, then you could both take a shower together and make sure that you are all clean first.

Start with oral sex. A good blow job will get his juices flowing and make him more receptive to more. Lick and suck on his balls and play around down there. Make him an­ticipate what’s about to come! Add hand job at the same time and he’s probably ready for more.

When you’re both ready, roll your tongue around his anus, and gen­tly graze over the area as if you were licking an ice cream cone. See if it makes your man spasm or shudder! (If it does, that’s a good thing!) Then, just continue to move your tongue all around his anus area. Men who respond well to rimming say that it really increases the intensity of their or­gasms. Some may want your fin­ger or a small toy inserted. I do not think that makes any man gay, by any means, and if you man, does, then just stay away.

Rimming your man can easily be added to your sex lives. If you do engage in it, be sure he is very clean down there. Yes, a shower is mandatory and if you feel you need to go and scrub him down there, then do. (That in itself can be a great sexual feeling and you may never get out of the shower.) So now you’re happy with his cleanliness and you two are going at it. Start slow and let it build. The stimulation alone will make him want more and you can now use your fingers and rub and tease his butthole. Lexi Lore shows us how to rim his hole with her tongue in Petite #329.

You can also do this by using a small vibe, dildo or butt plug. Working a toy into the act can be fun and it relieves you of be­ing down there and can focus on a more complete sex act! Of course, it should go without saying, that lube is a critical element of this type of sex play. Water based lubes are best for anal sex play, and stay away from oil based lubes.

More so than other sex acts, health issues need to be taken into con­sideration when thinking about rimming. Be sure that you take ex­tra lengths to be clean down there when you are going to incorporate any kind of anal play into sex.

A woman’s guide to analizing a man gave us a few tips but may also open the door to more sex exploration in your relationship. Act responsibly down there and enjoy!